in which european country do you find girls the easiest to pick up at nightclubs , hotels and shopping centres and take them to your bedroom.
18 - 40 years of age.
Well if this is your sole intention in coming to visit Europe then it is probably best to remain in your home country to be honest.
You are wasting an opporunity to visit countries full of culture, history, sights, nature, and an experience which many people would give their right arm to have.
What a shame.
in which european country do you find girls the easiest to pick up at nightclubs , hotels and shopping centres and take them to your bedroom.
18 - 40 years of age.
Well if this is your sole intention in coming to visit Europe then it is probably best to remain in your home country to be honest.
You are wasting an opporunity to visit countries full of culture, history, sights, nature, and an experience which many people would give their right arm to have.
What a shame.
As a girl, how does one attempt to approach / pick up a girl in a social setting?
Amir, I am looking for more real world advice .
I do thank you for answering, though
Regardless of gender, confidence and a smile will set you apart from everyone else in the crowd.
With girls, you simply have to be more gentle and softer in your approach than with a man.
Instead of pondering whether she is straight or bi or whatever you think she may be, just walk up to her, look her in the eye with a smile and introduce yourself. As you know, women are naturally guarded and reserved in certain public settings to protect themselves from outward advances, but they normally (whatever that is these days) are guarded against men.
What does this mean for you? It means that they don't expect women to be hitting on them like a man. Its the old saying 'they never saw it coming'.
Women, in general, can socialize with women easier because of common mental similarities. Its the reason women go to the bathroom in packs, dance together, etc.
All you really need to do again is just be confident in yourself and your ability to just walk up to her and say 'hi'. They are just people like you and I regardless of gender, and the fact that you are female, you already come off as less threatening and overbearing than a man.
A lot of people (many guys especially) may have the courage to walk up and say hi, but they have no idea what to do afterwards and that is when the deal falls apart.
The smooth transition that I always speak about is going from the simple introduction to a simple topic of conversation to keep her interest level (and comfort level with you) high.
It could be about her favorite author or receipe if you are in a bookstore, what gift she would recommend for a relative, etc..
The point is to come off as naturally comfortable talking with her about anything at all, ending with asking for a number.
Just through the course of talking with her, you will know whether or not she shares your same desires, and if not, it never hurts to make a friend. Plus, there are many females who know other bisexual and lesbian females, so they can be a good 'source' if you catch my drift.
I usually give this sort of advice to guys, but telling it to a girl, trust me when I say that you are already way ahead of the game in terms of your chances of a successful approach. You could be standing right in front of her in the bright lights of a club and smiling and she wouldn't even register it in her mind that you are trying to pick her up.
Her body is on auto defense from men, and you being a woman, you just got a front of the line pass.
As a girl, how does one attempt to approach / pick up a girl in a social setting?
Amir, I am looking for more real world advice .
I do thank you for answering, though
Regardless of gender, confidence and a smile will set you apart from everyone else in the crowd.
With girls, you simply have to be more gentle and softer in your approach than with a man.
Instead of pondering whether she is straight or bi or whatever you think she may be, just walk up to her, look her in the eye with a smile and introduce yourself. As you know, women are naturally guarded and reserved in certain public settings to protect themselves from outward advances, but they normally (whatever that is these days) are guarded against men.
What does this mean for you? It means that they don't expect women to be hitting on them like a man. Its the old saying 'they never saw it coming'.
Women, in general, can socialize with women easier because of common mental similarities. Its the reason women go to the bathroom in packs, dance together, etc.
All you really need to do again is just be confident in yourself and your ability to just walk up to her and say 'hi'. They are just people like you and I regardless of gender, and the fact that you are female, you already come off as less threatening and overbearing than a man.
A lot of people (many guys especially) may have the courage to walk up and say hi, but they have no idea what to do afterwards and that is when the deal falls apart.
The smooth transition that I always speak about is going from the simple introduction to a simple topic of conversation to keep her interest level (and comfort level with you) high.
It could be about her favorite author or receipe if you are in a bookstore, what gift she would recommend for a relative, etc..
The point is to come off as naturally comfortable talking with her about anything at all, ending with asking for a number.
Just through the course of talking with her, you will know whether or not she shares your same desires, and if not, it never hurts to make a friend. Plus, there are many females who know other bisexual and lesbian females, so they can be a good 'source' if you catch my drift.
I usually give this sort of advice to guys, but telling it to a girl, trust me when I say that you are already way ahead of the game in terms of your chances of a successful approach. You could be standing right in front of her in the bright lights of a club and smiling and she wouldn't even register it in her mind that you are trying to pick her up.
Her body is on auto defense from men, and you being a woman, you just got a front of the line pass.
I am bi-curious and am not sure how to go about picking up women
I can tell you what not to do.
My best friend is a lesbian, and she always thinks she can turn any straight girl into a lesbian. Not only is this not true, but it actually SCARES away most of her girl friends because she is so pushy.
Flirt around, and meet a girl.
After having a few awesome conversations, and getting to know eachother, if you think you might be interested in her, ask.
"Are you bi-sexual?"
Either she will say no, and youll continue being a good friend.
Or she will say yes, and from then on you can make your move.
I am bi-curious and am not sure how to go about picking up women
I can tell you what not to do.
My best friend is a lesbian, and she always thinks she can turn any straight girl into a lesbian. Not only is this not true, but it actually SCARES away most of her girl friends because she is so pushy.
Flirt around, and meet a girl.
After having a few awesome conversations, and getting to know eachother, if you think you might be interested in her, ask.
"Are you bi-sexual?"
Either she will say no, and youll continue being a good friend.
Or she will say yes, and from then on you can make your move.
It's one thing I've never been able to figure out. How do you approach or get approached by girls at the mall.I don't have a problem talking to girls or anything like that. I just don't want to be rude and interrupt girls while they are shopping. So my question is for the ladies. what situations is it best to approach girls or how can I set me self up to meet girls while shopping at the mall?
Go up to them and reach out your hands and use force from your arm so you won't drop them and than pick them up.
It's one thing I've never been able to figure out. How do you approach or get approached by girls at the mall.I don't have a problem talking to girls or anything like that. I just don't want to be rude and interrupt girls while they are shopping. So my question is for the ladies. what situations is it best to approach girls or how can I set me self up to meet girls while shopping at the mall?
Go up to them and reach out your hands and use force from your arm so you won't drop them and than pick them up.
Ok so this is the first Valentine's Day I have been single for a long time. Would it be a good night to go out to the bars to pick up girls? Would you say your more or less likely to pick someone up on Valentine's Day?
vollyball_lover it probably would be haha
its a great night to pick up girls. this is because the girls that don't have a valentine go out in hopes that they will get picked up.
the bars and clubs will be packed full of hot chicks.
now go out and have some fun. 
The last two times I went out to pick up a pack of condoms I had a girl kindof hover around me and then try to start up a convo. Has this ever happend to you?
I got picked up after I picked up 5 boxes of Magnum XL condoms at Wally world by two girls who saw me put them in my cart.
