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Having answered some of your questions and coming to learn a little about you (educated in literacy) and attending Uni….

I need to point out a few things:
1. This guy has such a busy schedule - meaning he obviously knows how to manage time…yet he can’t manage some time for you? To me the busy schedule is sadly a poor excuse…
2. By his own admittance he shows that he is not a person to rate relationships highly - after not learning from his previous mistakes he still runs the "rat race". That is a great concern for you as it shows several things - lack of respect for himself and those around him, lack of maturity to take others into account.
3. It would appear that he has a high work ethic - either aiming for a goal that is rewarding for him or will benefit him. My experience (having been trapped in that same cycle) is that when you are always working to a busy schedule you never really get a chance to appreciate the finer things in life.
4. He has the "balls" to committ to a exclusive relationship but then not be around for the other….lets take into account that some people out there are MARRIED to their workplace and as such it is hardly an exclusive relationship….so what should have been said is " lets have an exclusive relationship - you cant see others - and i wont see others - but see it is not a problem for me because I dont have time to see you anyway so it is cool…." - think you get the point here.
5. Any early stage of a relationship is about exploring each other - your strengths and weaknesses and also the personaility of the other…in this case you are opening yourseld up to being hurt - committing your time and your energy to someone who is not going to open himself up to you = that you will never learn who he truly is - at the end of the day he is a chameleon.
6. Look at what you want and how this current "relationship of convenience" is benefitting you. Reverse things and ask yourself how would he react if he had a 6 hours free to see a movie with you and you said " i am tired" or i have a busy schedule….that will give you an indication.

So the list continues - but seriously you are too smart and too good to be caught up in chasing another person’s dream at the risk of losing your own goals, wants and desires. Why not tell him - if he can not be there for you and manage his time properly - (after all relationships are hard work) then why should it be exclusive? why should it even be….

Trust that gives food for thought—good luck with it all and dont be chase shadows or promises in relationships - take what is real (can be seen, felt, touched) after all a relationship is like a waking up in the morning to a beautiful day - the sunshine will warm you and embrace you…pity the people that sit in a dark room thinking of what the sunshine is like - and just let your radiance glow. There is a right man out there who will value your time (more than his own) will know how to compromise to ensure that both are happy…

You are wasting an opporunity to visit countries full of culture, history, sights, nature, and an experience which many people would give their right arm to have.

What a shame.

You are wasting an opporunity to visit countries full of culture, history, sights, nature, and an experience which many people would give their right arm to have.

What a shame.

With girls, you simply have to be more gentle and softer in your approach than with a man.

Instead of pondering whether she is straight or bi or whatever you think she may be, just walk up to her, look her in the eye with a smile and introduce yourself. As you know, women are naturally guarded and reserved in certain public settings to protect themselves from outward advances, but they normally (whatever that is these days) are guarded against men.

What does this mean for you? It means that they don't expect women to be hitting on them like a man. Its the old saying 'they never saw it coming'.
Women, in general, can socialize with women easier because of common mental similarities. Its the reason women go to the bathroom in packs, dance together, etc.

All you really need to do again is just be confident in yourself and your ability to just walk up to her and say 'hi'. They are just people like you and I regardless of gender, and the fact that you are female, you already come off as less threatening and overbearing than a man.

A lot of people (many guys especially) may have the courage to walk up and say hi, but they have no idea what to do afterwards and that is when the deal falls apart.
The smooth transition that I always speak about is going from the simple introduction to a simple topic of conversation to keep her interest level (and comfort level with you) high.
It could be about her favorite author or receipe if you are in a bookstore, what gift she would recommend for a relative, etc..

The point is to come off as naturally comfortable talking with her about anything at all, ending with asking for a number.

Just through the course of talking with her, you will know whether or not she shares your same desires, and if not, it never hurts to make a friend. Plus, there are many females who know other bisexual and lesbian females, so they can be a good 'source' if you catch my drift.

I usually give this sort of advice to guys, but telling it to a girl, trust me when I say that you are already way ahead of the game in terms of your chances of a successful approach. You could be standing right in front of her in the bright lights of a club and smiling and she wouldn't even register it in her mind that you are trying to pick her up.
Her body is on auto defense from men, and you being a woman, you just got a front of the line pass.

With girls, you simply have to be more gentle and softer in your approach than with a man.

Instead of pondering whether she is straight or bi or whatever you think she may be, just walk up to her, look her in the eye with a smile and introduce yourself. As you know, women are naturally guarded and reserved in certain public settings to protect themselves from outward advances, but they normally (whatever that is these days) are guarded against men.

What does this mean for you? It means that they don't expect women to be hitting on them like a man. Its the old saying 'they never saw it coming'.
Women, in general, can socialize with women easier because of common mental similarities. Its the reason women go to the bathroom in packs, dance together, etc.

All you really need to do again is just be confident in yourself and your ability to just walk up to her and say 'hi'. They are just people like you and I regardless of gender, and the fact that you are female, you already come off as less threatening and overbearing than a man.

A lot of people (many guys especially) may have the courage to walk up and say hi, but they have no idea what to do afterwards and that is when the deal falls apart.
The smooth transition that I always speak about is going from the simple introduction to a simple topic of conversation to keep her interest level (and comfort level with you) high.
It could be about her favorite author or receipe if you are in a bookstore, what gift she would recommend for a relative, etc..

The point is to come off as naturally comfortable talking with her about anything at all, ending with asking for a number.

Just through the course of talking with her, you will know whether or not she shares your same desires, and if not, it never hurts to make a friend. Plus, there are many females who know other bisexual and lesbian females, so they can be a good 'source' if you catch my drift.

I usually give this sort of advice to guys, but telling it to a girl, trust me when I say that you are already way ahead of the game in terms of your chances of a successful approach. You could be standing right in front of her in the bright lights of a club and smiling and she wouldn't even register it in her mind that you are trying to pick her up.
Her body is on auto defense from men, and you being a woman, you just got a front of the line pass.