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How to pick up girls in a mall?

April 12th, 2009

It's one thing I've never been able to figure out. How do you approach or get approached by girls at the mall.I don't have a problem talking to girls or anything like that. I just don't want to be rude and interrupt girls while they are shopping. So my question is for the ladies. what situations is it best to approach girls or how can I set me self up to meet girls while shopping at the mall?

Go up to them and reach out your hands and use force from your arm so you won't drop them and than pick them up.

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10 Responses to “How to pick up girls in a mall?”

  1. Jesus
    April 12th, 2009 - 4:44 pm

    Go up to them and reach out your hands and use force from your arm so you won't drop them and than pick them up.
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  2. Michael
    April 12th, 2009 - 5:08 pm

    Ive never done it but best thing i can come up with is if your in the same store ask a girl for her opinion on what soemthing looks like on you or something your buying for another girl like your sister or mom.Other than that I wanna see how to too! lol.
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  3. Timothy K
    April 12th, 2009 - 5:36 pm

    I hate the term "pick up girls"
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  4. Mayx3
    April 12th, 2009 - 6:11 pm

    Okay first of all, lmfao to the first answer !
    &&
    pick up some ugly sweater and be like would this look nice on me?
    lmao, i think that would be funny(:
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  5. --J
    April 12th, 2009 - 6:47 pm

    lmao.
    I've seen some guys do it before
    and the girls get creeped out or
    just yell at them for tryna 'pick up girls'

    hah. I hate those words/ the term.
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  6. Hotaru89
    April 12th, 2009 - 6:52 pm

    That is extremely creepy. Girls hate it when guys do that ANYWHERE. Girls generally will not want to talk to some random guy from the store unless they have extremely low self esteem and are just as desperate as you are!! Get a girlfriend the normal way AHHHHH!
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    I have had guys do this multiple times to me at work (in a mall) and it got so creepy I had to kick a lot of them out of the store because they were being stalkerish! DON'T become a stalker!!!!

  7. skateyo
    April 12th, 2009 - 7:19 pm

    one day my friends and i went to the mall and we saw some girls..i told th girl my friend said whats up so she started talking to him then he ditched us TO GET LAID. lol \
    what a miracle
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  8. Netta
    April 12th, 2009 - 7:33 pm

    For starters you don't want it to get around that you were out shopping for ways to pick up girls. It's not cool to walk up to people in passing, like you said 'shopping".
    You don't have a problem talking to girls , so there you go.Kids don't seem to have a problem when they are gathered wherever kids gather.
    Now hang out at the stores kids go to these days in malls; or food court or whatever. Gather. Say hi while you are drinking a coke or pepsi. If she responds say "do I know you from somewhere"? You may not have to initiate the conversation. From what I can tell with my own sons, it's the girls following the boys around.
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  9. Scott
    April 12th, 2009 - 8:11 pm

    There are many ways to pick up girls in the mall. Girls can be picked up anywhere, anytime; it's not what you say, its how you say things. Confidence is key.

    Now, the mall in particular, you are going to have interrupt them while they are shopping, but not necessarily rude. Get them to look up long enough to gauge eye contact, wait for the nonverbal invite to open.

    Now, what you can do are:

    Ask for an opinion on an item: Very safe, very boring, not recommended. The name of the game is to stand out. Asking if they like an orange Abercrombie shirt is not going to get it done.

    Funny: Ask her what department she got that shirt/blouse/dress/shoes from so that you can get something similar. Sound weird, yes, but if you say it funny with a hint of sarcasm, it comes off very non-threatening and breaks down all of their initial walls.

    Neg: Its supposed to degrade and compliment at the same time. Tell her you're not going to buy that item in THAT color, are you? You should get it in (insert color here), it brings out her hair/eyes/ass (not recommended for the first approach)/etc. much nicer.

    There are many more advanced techniques that you can use at the mall; try these, see how it goes. Come off cool and confident and make sure you lay the foundation that you are a fun guy.
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  10. spoiledprincess1395
    April 12th, 2009 - 9:01 pm

    tell them your buying your sister a b-day (or other holiday) gift and ask her opinion

    but pick something ugly when she tells you its bad ask for her help finding something good after she finds the perfect gift for your sister ask her if you could have her phone number if she says no say thank you for helping me find my sisters gift that was very nice and walk away if she gives it to you thn say thanks and actually call her!!! also see if you can keep hanging out with her at the mall

    *only sya ur sister if you actually have one bc if u date her she'll find out u lied girls dont like liars if you dont hav a sis say your cousin or other female relative not mom or aunt grandma ect bc she might not like that your associating her taste with old women depending on how old u r*
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    that wld b a cute way for a guy to pick me up

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